I think if you have kids, you will be in debt into your 50s

Well looking at our current finances with investments and what not,
having a kid will wipe out our retirement funds
Just 1 kid
I'm not even talking about 2
It's estimated that having a kid will set you back by at least
400k
Of course ppl say kids are happiness, don't count the $$ but
reading those sad story reports I really don't want to be caught in
that situation